Dating for dinosaurs

Okay, so you've been married for umpteen years and now you're dating again. How do you navigate this brand new world of dating without getting frustrated? First, keep your expectations at a minimum (this is not to say lower your standards.) All I am saying ladies is that this is another day.

So where do men and women meet these days? Forget the workplace, too many no- fraternization policies in place. Ladies are posting ads on the internet. We're speed dating. We're attending meet ups, and inserting keys into locks of strangers hoping they will fit. Those are called Lock and Key parties. These are the places virtual strangers meet.

Okay, so you meet him finally, and you like him, and want to see him again. The days of sitting waiting for him to call are over. If you're interested, better make the next move. Text, phone, ask him out. Women have become bolder, and if you snooze you lose.

What is that beep or buzzing sound coming from your purse? It's the sound of a text coming in. Maybe he's asking you out, canceling a date, or heaven forbid, breaking up with you. Forget the personal touch. It's technology at work aiding the cowards.

You've had dinner and the check arrives. Does he reach for it (though most decent guys will at least for the first or second date?) Heavens no, be prepared to pay, at least for your portion.

Dates over, you're relaxing reading e mails.Up pops an IM. It's him. He's asking "what are you wearing?" Don't be surprised if things get hot and heavy from there.

It's a brand new world out there; one our mother's would not call courting. Today it's the 'hookup.' I still say romance has a place. As women we should settle for nothing less.